urbanists.social is one of the many independent Mastodon servers you can use to participate in the fediverse.
We're a server for people who like bikes, transit, and walkable cities. Let's get to know each other!

Server stats:

553
active users

#dominant

0 posts0 participants0 posts today
axadle<p>Barcelona's Front Trio Dazzles in Dominant Victory Over Dortmund <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Sports" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Sports</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Barcelonas" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Barcelonas</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Dazzles" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dazzles</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dominant</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Dortmund" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dortmund</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/front" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>front</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Trio" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trio</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/victory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>victory</span></a>&nbsp;<br><a href="https://tinyurl.com/23ht6d2p" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">tinyurl.com/23ht6d2p</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
ABY BUT IN ALLCAPS<p>I often get messaged on Fetlife by people I don't know asking to meet up with them to play.</p><p>I don't tend to do this anymore because of covid, so I'll simply respond "sorry, I don't meet up with strangers".</p><p>Women and queers tend to message back with something akin to "I totally understand, have a great week!"</p><p>Men almost always message back asking how to "not be a stranger", or they start arguing with me that they aren't a stranger because we're chatting/I know their name/we both live in Bathurst etc.. </p><p>But it's like... why are you, a grown adult, unsure how to not be a stranger to someone? Like is the concept of learning about and becoming friends with another person that much of an alien idea to you?</p><p>Also, I'm not a vending machine you pay friendship into until I fuck you - and I get the irony of this, seeing as I often fuck my friends.</p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/fetlife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fetlife</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Ds" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ds</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dominant</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>submissive</span></a></p>
ABY BUT IN ALLCAPS<p>It's interesting how it's always the men with the "LordMasterDivineDomlyGod" names who make declarations of how sadism/masochism works for everyone*, and when you question what they've said they decide you're the one being stubborn and ignorant?</p><p>Like, my guy.. my little guy, it's ok that other people experience things in different ways to you. It's really ok.</p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Ds" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ds</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dominant</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>submissive</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/fetlife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fetlife</span></a> </p><p>_____<br>* brought to you by the ever pervasive bullshit idea that sadists are naturally dominant and masochists are naturally submissive, because sadism is active and dynamic, but masochism is passive and receptive.</p>
ABY BUT IN ALLCAPS<p>Him:<br>I'm in security. I'm a consultant. </p><p>Me:<br>OK, well I don't play with anyone who is a cop or works cop-adjacent, like in security companies. </p><p>Him:<br>Umm well actually it's finance security. I'm not a security guard</p><p>___<br>1. You said security, my guy.<br>2. That's not really any better.<br>3. Still not interested.</p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Ds" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ds</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dominant</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>submissive</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/fetlife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fetlife</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a></p>
ABY BUT IN ALLCAPS<p>I run a local kink group on Facebook, and in November called someone in about being a chaser.. they decided to leave instead of engaging with the conversation about how chasing and the fetishisation of trans bodies is actually transphobia. After they left I attached a ban to their account so they couldn't rejoin and start shit because I had a feeling... </p><p>They've just tracked me down on Fetlife - 5 months later - and started drama in multiple groups there about it ("you banned me for no reason!"), posting in groups I'm in and commenting on threads I've posted in.</p><p>...but I made a mistake for banning them? 🤔</p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Ds" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ds</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dominant</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>submissive</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Fetlife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fetlife</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Facebook" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Facebook</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/FacebookGroups" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FacebookGroups</span></a></p>
Kiki Phoenix<p><span>Morning my pet. Rituals nurture your mind and help you balance the unexpected of the day with healthy patterns. You get up, you have breakfast, you brush your teeth, you drink your water, and you submit to me, begging for these boots to step on you once again. That's just how it goes, and you're such a good pet for it. </span>❤️😈<span><br><br></span><a href="https://spookygirl.boo/tags/mornings" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#mornings</a><span> </span><a href="https://spookygirl.boo/tags/rituals" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#rituals</a><span> </span><a href="https://spookygirl.boo/tags/femdom" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#femdom</a><span> </span><a href="https://spookygirl.boo/tags/dominant" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dominant</a><span> </span><a href="https://spookygirl.boo/tags/trans" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#trans</a><span> </span><a href="https://spookygirl.boo/tags/boots" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#boots</a><span> </span><a href="https://spookygirl.boo/tags/steponme" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#steponme</a></p>
●Strawberrycat●<p>Hi! I am a <a href="https://kinkycats.org/tags/demisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>demisexual</span></a> passive <a href="https://kinkycats.org/tags/switch" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>switch</span></a> with a big passion for men with a <a href="https://kinkycats.org/tags/servicekink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>servicekink</span></a>, <a href="https://kinkycats.org/tags/dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dominant</span></a> or <a href="https://kinkycats.org/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>submissive</span></a>, and a little passion for other genders.<br>My languages are German and English.</p>