"I was dressed up, remade, authored anew by this woman whom I’d loved for all of a matter of days."
Patreons! Stunning new guest audio by Jenby! A #kink I never knew had a name: #Twinning!
https://www.patreon.com/posts/twinning-someone-126617478
My super cool friends are teaching a class geared towards those for whom CNC is relatively new.
They'll cover safeties, negotiation nuance to consider, the Why behind it, and lots of ideas on how to begin playing with it!
Class is 18+ for obvious reasons. I get a % of sales but I have paid to attend their classes before & truly think they're wonderful educators.
Tickets: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/pandastory/2025-04-16-when-no-is-not-a-safeword .
This was a December special I wrote as a Saturnalia gift for my patrons back in 2019
#Dionysos wakes up with a chastity cage. Follow him investigate #whodunit
It was an experiment with chastity play, my first time writing anything like that. Maybe worth revisiting?
Art by @greypetrel.tumblr.com
https://eroticmythology.com/dionysos-special-golden-cage?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social
@smutstodon #erotica #chastity #mythology #kink #indieArtist #indieAuthor
Do you like erotic wrestling with a touch of choking? As a god, #Hermes doesn't have to worry about the real life dangers of #asphyxiation for mortals...
@smutstodon #erotica #kink #mythology #gayErotica #mlm #indieAuthor
I often get messaged on Fetlife by people I don't know asking to meet up with them to play.
I don't tend to do this anymore because of covid, so I'll simply respond "sorry, I don't meet up with strangers".
Women and queers tend to message back with something akin to "I totally understand, have a great week!"
Men almost always message back asking how to "not be a stranger", or they start arguing with me that they aren't a stranger because we're chatting/I know their name/we both live in Bathurst etc..
But it's like... why are you, a grown adult, unsure how to not be a stranger to someone? Like is the concept of learning about and becoming friends with another person that much of an alien idea to you?
Also, I'm not a vending machine you pay friendship into until I fuck you - and I get the irony of this, seeing as I often fuck my friends.
#Kink info request! Anyone got links to good resources on choking? Why it’s not safe, safer breath play alternatives etc?
Mijn oud-collega's bij #KINK zijn een week lang bezig met geld ophalen voor de prachtige Stichting No Guts No Glory. Heb jij de mogelijkheid, doe mee, doneer iets, promoot het. Zo veel hartjes voor KINK en Stichting NGNG! https://kink.nl/nieuws/radio-on-tour-kink-voor-no-guts-no-glory
Liebs wie Kinks immer nur Thema sind, wenn Arschlöcher der Community etwas ohne Consent gemacht haben, oder Vanilla Möchtegern Feminist*innen freundlich kink shamen wollen mit ihren "berechtigten Sorgen".
Ja es gibt Kinks die "krass" wirken, die Körper verändern, die mit Rollen, Schmerzen und mehr arbeiten.
Es ist aber Praxis das es in all diesen Kinks um Consent und Aufklärung geht. Das die Leute wissen was sie da tun und sich dafür frei entscheiden.
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Now we know why the Heard and McDonald Islands ended up with tariffs...
When someone mentions CNC, what does that mean to you? Like many terms in kink & BDSM definitions can vary widely. We’d love to hear yours!
The next class my friends are teaching is "when no is not a safeword," a class on CNC.
It's designed for those new to CNC and will heavily focus on safety and how to do it ethically.
Tickets: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/pandastory/2025-04-16-when-no-is-not-a-safeword
Disclosure: I get a % of ticket sales but I paid to go to their classes before & will continue to after cos they're awesome educators.
Addendum: I did not only left behinde personal connections but I left behind my #queer community, my #goth community and my #kink community.
These are huge part of my identity, these communities make me strife. Leaving meta platform is now cutting ties again.
The Fediverse™ failed to welcome new communities, to welcome different ways of using it. Social networks are about community. We failed .