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The next class my friends are teaching is "when no is not a safeword," a class on CNC.

It's designed for those new to CNC and will heavily focus on safety and how to do it ethically.

Tickets: forbiddentickets.com/events/pa

Disclosure: I get a % of ticket sales but I paid to go to their classes before & will continue to after cos they're awesome educators.

Forbidden Tickets | When “No” is Not a SafewordForbidden Tickets | When “No” is Not a SafewordCNC - As CNC becomes an increasingly widespread topic of interest, let’s explore the different types, how to engage in it ethically and as safely as we can, and brainstorm ideas on how to begin incorporating it into your play.

My #bdsm #novella "Awakening" is now available as print from Amazon.

"simon’s world begins to unravel as Josh challenges him in ways he never thought possible, pushing him to confront his deepest fears and yearnings. Will Simon give in to the magnetic pull of their connection, or retreat to the safety of the familiar?"

amzn.to/4iT6PQl

amzn.toAwakening : Ravenshead, Jonah: Amazon.fr: LivresNoté /5: Achetez Awakening de Ravenshead, Jonah: ISBN: 9798315109686 sur amazon.fr, des millions de livres livrés chez vous en 1 jour

It's interesting how it's always the men with the "LordMasterDivineDomlyGod" names who make declarations of how sadism/masochism works for everyone*, and when you question what they've said they decide you're the one being stubborn and ignorant?

Like, my guy.. my little guy, it's ok that other people experience things in different ways to you. It's really ok.

#kink #bdsm #Ds #Dominant #submissive #fetlife

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* brought to you by the ever pervasive bullshit idea that sadists are naturally dominant and masochists are naturally submissive, because sadism is active and dynamic, but masochism is passive and receptive.

#Kink and #LGBT dating apps #exposed 1.5m private user images online

"Researchers have discovered nearly 1.5 million pictures from specialist dating apps – many of which are explicit – being stored online without password protection, leaving them #vulnerable to hackers and #extortionists.

Anyone with the link was able to view the private photos from five platforms developed by M.A.D Mobile: kink sites #BDSM People and Chica, and LGBT apps Pink, Brish and Translove."
bbc.com/news/articles/c05m5m5v

Chica app logo
www.bbc.comDating apps for kink and LGBT communities expose 1.5m private user images onlineThe often-explicit pictures are being stored without password protection, leaving them vulnerable to a hack.

Off to "At Your Service: Topping from Submission" today, a class on service topping (as you may have guessed from the title!).

It's something I've thought I should look into for ages but broadly makes me feel uncomfortable (apart from now one very specific situation.)

If you're interested, you can grab a ticket here: forbiddentickets.com/events/pa

Disclosure: I get a % of ticket sales but I have paid for classes from them before cos they're awesome educators.

Forbidden Tickets | At Your Service: Topping from SubmissionForbidden Tickets | At Your Service: Topping from SubmissionService Topping - Identify as an s-type, but want to feel like topping is a service you can provide without being drained? Hoo boy, does panda feel you there! Speaking from personal experiences, let’s explore some possibilities together.