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#consistency

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What to do if bullying? Try consistent boundaries

1. do not writhe or waver. (Movement attracts the bully)
2. do not attempt to appease. (Any offer is interpreted as weakness and obtains thrust)
3. flee to a safe position that you could hold with support
4. then stand still. Set limits on how others treat you. Affirm boundaries (The bully will redirect attacks eventually)
5. connect: turn to a trusted person, reach out only to someone you feel well about
6. offer backing, foster, become accomplice, enjoy

Back & Better: Lessons Learned & Bigger Moves Ahead

The author reflects on personal growth following the recovery of their Facebook account. Rather than dwelling on negativity, they embrace gratitude for their platform. Upcoming projects include a podcast, a networking platform, and collaboration with AModelsProject. Balancing personal life and ambitions remains a priority, and appreciation is expressed for the support received.

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