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Honestly, as far as kinksters go.. Swingers have to be some of the most whingey little babies I've ever met.

I'm constantly getting messages from swingers complaining that there are no events for them to attend, and when I point out that there are monthly munches they are welcome to attend they complain that it's a kink munch.

Dude, it's Bathurst - the selection pool is small.

Firstly, swinging is a kink. Secondly, if you're not interested in going to the event and you're not bothered to start your own, don't message a complete stranger and about something not being tailor made for you and your dick.

This is exactly why I stopped organising.

#kink#bdsm#Ds

C'est tellement précieux les espaces kinky queers comme ça pour se retrouver 💖

J'étais vraiment honoré d'exposer mes créations les plus chaudes pour aider les visiteur.ices du festival Lupa à s'orner des plus beaux atours ⛓️

Un grand merci à l'orga et à toutes les personnes qui sont passées à mon stand 💞

Est-ce que le crochet inspiré du bd/sm vous plaît ? répondez en commentaires !

Heya #fediverse! I have a friend, #erotic #novelist TammyJo Eckhart, who actually approached - me to ask if I had a suggestion for what instance she should join, so I thought I'd ask the community for the perfect one!

She's looking for one that:

Welcomes #book #Author s and #Reader s

Welcomes #feminism and #queer / #lgbt discussions

Welcomes #AdultContent (discussion of #sexuality , some explicit materials, #kink, and #polyamory )

Welcomes social commentary (I think she means #leftist #politics )

She's never used Mastodon before, and is not particularly tech savvy (so no infosec-opensource-foss-whatever focused servers, please), but like most of us who ended up here, she's tired of the fascist censorship and coddling of mainstream social media platforms, and wants to find a place she can connect with others without having to constantly look over her shoulder for nazis and/or algorithmic censorship.

She also didn't mention character count, but as a writer (and person who enjoys engaging in nuanced conversation instead of screaming click bait headlines), something more than the default 500 characters would be nice as well. 😊

Any servers she should check out? And potential follows she might be interested in connecting with?

If you'd like to get to know TammyJo a little more, here's an interview I recorded with her for my feminist topless equality video series Topless Topics: toplesstopics.org/tammyjo/

Boosts appreciated so I can find her the perfect fit!

www.toplesstopics.orgTopless Topics Interviews TammyJo Eckhart: Ancient Historian, Award-Winning Kink Educator, and Multi-Genre Fiction Author – Topless Topics

entirely honest question:
Ich würde gerne einmal Wochenenden in Gesellschaft anderer Menschen verbringen, an einem Ort wo ich meine Interessen wie Latex und Bondage nicht peinlich verstecken&unterdrücken muß

Könnt ihr mir helfen im Großraum Nürnberg und bis zu ein paar Stunden Zugfahrt etwas zu finden? Privater Freundeskreis oder öffrntliche Veranstaltung mit Unterkunft?

Vielen Dank für eure Hilfe
#TeilenErwünscht #RubberFur #LatexPony #Kink #Einsamkeit

Hallo zusammen,
Ich bin #neuhier - hab mit meinem "Alltagsaccount" schon ein paar Erfahrungen bei Mastodon gemacht und langsam war die Sehnsucht groß, eben auch mit Themen, die meine Kollegen nicht unbedingt mitlesen müssen, aktiv zu werden.

Freu mich auf den Austausch hier, zu Themen wie #polyamorie #kink und #consent vor allem im Bereich #erotica. Empfehlt mir gern eure Lieblingsprofile!

Ich schreibe und spreche meine Sachen ein, aktuell gibts die auf #Fetlife zu lesen und zu hören. Bald dann ja vielleicht auch hier.

My super cool friends are teaching a class geared towards those for whom CNC is relatively new.
They'll cover safeties, negotiation nuance to consider, the Why behind it, and lots of ideas on how to begin playing with it!

Class is 18+ for obvious reasons. I get a % of sales but I have paid to attend their classes before & truly think they're wonderful educators.

Tickets: forbiddentickets.com/events/pa .

Forbidden Tickets | When “No” is Not a SafewordForbidden Tickets | When “No” is Not a SafewordCNC - As CNC becomes an increasingly widespread topic of interest, let’s explore the different types, how to engage in it ethically and as safely as we can, and brainstorm ideas on how to begin incorporating it into your play.